Question by all his.: How hard is hiding a pregnancy?
How hard will this be? I’m only 17 and my aunt doesn’t know I have a boyfriend, and wait until she finds out who it is. Ohmannn. (but that’s another story for a different day)
I want what is best for my baby. I’m still going to go to regular appointments and eat healthy and take my vitamins and everything. I’m just wondering how obvious it’s going to be that I am pregnant in the early stages? I know of course, when push comes to shove, I will have to tell her, and I plan on doing so when I turn 18. I will be around 16 weeks on my 18th birthday. Is it going to be hard? I already feel guilty enough as it is because I know she will think it’s just me being disrespectful, so I’ve been really nice to her lately but I don’t want her to get suspicious.
I’m fully independent. I’m finishing my last year in highschool and I have a job that pays me about 500$ (give or take a few) every paycheck (biweekly) which is not bad considering I am a full time student. I already have plans that do not involve me mooching off of her and raising the baby in her house. I’m going to probably go back and live with my mother when I do turn 18 until my boyfriend and I can get our own apartment hopefully before the baby is born or soon after (he joined the Police academy).
So yeah. Is this going to be hard to hide it for so long? I’m 5’5 and weigh 160 so I’m not fat but I’m not skinny, I’m chubby I guess you could say. Would I be showing by then? Anyone else had to hide a pregnancy, how hard was it? Did you feel unbearably guilty like I do right now? ):
I left out the most important detail, my aunt and I don’t see eye to eye on anything, hardly get along and I can’t even stand being home to be around her. I don’t hate her or anything, I just had a very broken home living with my parents and I pretty much raised myself. I’ve had a hard time trying to convert from having no parents at all to someone forcing their way into my life in an unkindly manner with hopes to take over the leadership role. I’ve only been in her house for two years, I lived with my parents prior and a friend the year before I moved into her home. I know all she wants is for me to have a better life than what my parents had/what they gave me, and I have so much respect for her. She’s helped me when she didn’t even have to. It was her choice to take me in and I’m so thankful for it, especially since it’s always been just her and her roomate here, she doesn’t have any other kids.
Answer by Jade♥
No probably not! I weight less than you and i have a belly, so I’d be able to hide it! No offence meant! ox
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