Question by Guitarist Rocker: I am sad & going through depression due to a break up, can anyone please help?
Hi, i was dumped last september 2008 by my gf & its since then i havent managed to get over her, initially it was extremly bad but gradually i gt a grip ovr myself, She apparently broke up wid me for no reason and behaved rudely with me whnevr i tried to express myself to her. When i asked her why she dumped me she has no answer but she said once that i am a good guy and ive always been good to her. After dumping me she never gave me a chance to express myself to her, all this has overall affected me a lot including my career (part time model & an amateur filmmaker) i have lost my confidence and most of alll ive lost the fire for my oals and ambitions in my life im lost i took time off and did a lot of extra curricular activities but nthing helped i even undertook a new hobbie (learnt the guitar) but nothing helped, i tried a rebound but that also dint work. I seeked medical attention (antidepressants) bt that also dint help. I am doing my post graduation in filmmaking currently and i hardly have any confidence in doing my presentations also nor do i have much confidence in talking to girls in my class also. I just dun knw whr my life is taking me, i have become an depressed & frustrated poerson. I need advice anyone please help, i also want the fire back to chase my dreams & goals in my life.
Answer by Rach
I’m so sorry you’re dealing w/ that! You really need to remember that she’s not good enough, and you deserve so much better. You have to hold your head high and keep doing things you love, eventualy it should get better! Everyone has to take the time to be upset, but you can’t let it ruin your life. You just gotta know you deserve better, and she’s a horrible person for treating you like that. Just keep yourself very busy you have to get through this!
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