Question by Superfluous: My fiance lives at the beach and I live in the city, should I really consider the following…?
Moving with him?
I’m also considering the pros and cons:
Living in the city is more convenient since I have access to more activities and places that I will not find in a place at the beach.
I practice ballet, pilates and Yoga and all the academies are in the city!
You have a couple of yoga retreat centers and pilates studio at the beach but that’s not what I’m looking for, besides they are pretty exspensive there.
No ballet teachers there. I go to singing classes as well and I’ll not find any teacher at the beach.
He’s a wealthy man in an out, I’m independent and I’m working on my own website. That’s a big plus because I’ll have an option for myself.
The city is really convenient but it cannot compare to a relaxed place at the beach/mountain…Sometimes I think about it and feel like just giving up everything and moving with him, a lot of friends tell me that I’m an idiot for not taking this chance but sometimes I feel I should work the webiste out and then consider it, save money…
But sometimes I feel I should just be a woman, get pampered, relax, stop aging with all the stress of a job, environment.
He tells me that I feel tired and sick because I’m not learning to be a woman, that he would give me anything I desire if I just learn to be a woman.
He says that he’s giving me the option but I wont take it. That I’m streesed because I want to.
What should I do?
Leave the city to move with him, get healthier and everything I desire? But what with my other desires that I wont find at the beach(Dance, singing…)
I can work my website from the beach but?
Should I go with him, be patience and wait until an option of buying a house in the city knock doors?
But then the time wasted, time I could use to practice what I love doing, dance and sing…while I work and build my online business…
I’m confused, what do you think is a wise/better choice/decision right now?
I’m tired but confused at the same time.
Answer by say it all…
Do what you feel is right.
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