Question by Happylittleme.: I NEED GUY HELP! NOW!!?
ok, i dont know what else to do about this problem so here goes. there is this guy that i insanely like. i think bouut him lk 24/7 and cry at night cos i cant be with him. hes at my school, same grade as me. we have never really talked, but in the past when we have he is the nicest, funniest person i have ever met. anyway, i think he somehow found out that i liked him and now things are all wierd between us. he never talks to me…but my friends think cos he’s shy. anyway, he invited me to his pool party and i was too sick to go, so obviously he thought about me? also, he asked my friend if i was gonna sign up for this filmmaking group thing. idk…
anyway, today he did this really funny speech in class, and i was laughing so hard i nearly peed! hes sooo fun, but never actually talks directly to me. its always sooo akward between us, but he usually comes and sits by friend, but doesn’t talk to me! ive liked this guy for almost a year, and its sooo hard to concentrate when hes on my mind all day! what should i do? how do i become his friend? thanks for your help 🙂
Answer by Jessica Barnes
Sometimes guys need to be told what to do. Take it from my personal experience. Take the upper hand-take a chance! Invite him out with a group of friends & make an effort to talk to him. What’s the worst that can happen? He doesn’t like you, so you move on to another guy. In life, you’ll have to deal with a lot of rejection, but don’t always think it’s your fault-thaere’s a buzzillion different reasons guys you like may not go for you, & 99.9% of the time you won’t know why. Guys like girls with confidence, so rock it out-tell yourself you’re the baddest chic on the planet & he’d be lucky to have you. If it doesn’t work out, there’s a reason, & there IS somebody out there for everybody-sometimes you just have to “kiss” a lot of frogs to find your prince!
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