Question by Lori: Why do I like this guy so much?
I met this guy last year in a class I took for filmmaking. So yeah we have that in common. But that’s where it ends. He’s a, shall we say, “black helicopter” Republican; very opinionated, passionate and thinks the world is out to get him. But he’s also generous, willing to help you at all costs and is an all around nice guy.
After class ended last May, I didn’t see him until just recently. We’re going to work on several projects together and we’ll be undoubtedly spending lots of time together again. And yep, my feelings for him came rushing back.
I mean, two nights ago we met up to talk about the project. Somehow, our conversation turned for the worse; politics. He’s very political and loves to shove his ideas and views down people’s throats. I could care less about politics and I let that be known. We went back and forth on the subject and ended up in a heated argument. Instead of hating the guy, I liked him even more!! WTF?
He’s not like ANY guy I’ve ever met. He knows what he wants out of life and will stop at nothing to get there. I love that. I don’t care if he can be an ********. It just adds to his charm.
I met up with him again last night (he called me to say he wanted to talk more about the project). I was ecstatic! I feel like a teenager with a crush (by the way, I’m 26). We met up and had an awesome time. Added to the fact that he’s gorgeous, he’s so passionate about film making. But sometimes I feel like that’s really his focus right now, not relationships.
So my question to all of you is: why do I like him? He’s completely wrong for me, yet, I can’t seem to get him out of my mind. And the fact that we’re working together again is the highlight of my life. Crazy? I think so.
Answer by Amy
opposites attract. its the exact same with my parents however they do have the same beliefs and values so there relationship dose work 🙂
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